Love you can hold.
WHAT IS RECEIVING GIFTS?
Some kids feel extra loved when they receive a thoughtful little gift. It’s not about “buying love” — it’s about saying, “I was thinking of you, so I brought you this.” The gift becomes a reminder of your love.
WHAT IT IS:
This love language uses meaningful objects — big or tiny — to communicate love.
Kid-friendly version:
A surprise that says, "I love you".
It’s the thought, not the price.
WHY IT MATTERS?
When we use this love language the healthy way, kids learn:
Love can come in little packages
Someone was thinking about me
We can give, not just get
Gifts can be made, not only bought
This is great for birthdays, holidays, and “just because” days.
GIFT IDEAS THAT AREN'T EXPENSIVE:
Simple gifts to give:
A flower from the yard
A handwritten note
A printed coloring page you made just for them
A sticker they love
A favorite snack in a cute bag
A little toy figure
A bookmark for story-time
A rock/shell/leaf from a walk together
Kids can give too:
Draw a picture for mom
Make a bracelet for a sibling
Pick a toy to give a friend
Wrap up a “found” treasure
DO IT AT HOME:
Just-because bag: once a month, give a surprise bag with 2–3 tiny things.
Love mailbox: leave notes/gifts for each other in a box.
Gift-making day: make cards for family/teachers.
Memory gifts: give something that reminds them of a special day.
Gift it forward: teach kids to give to others too.